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In this video: 8 cruise ship tips from a former employee

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Why is tipping so important on cruises if it's already included in my fare?

Tipping is indeed expected beyond your base fare price. Crew members depend on gratuity as a core part of their income, and it goes directly to rewarding good service. Being generous also makes crew happier and more attentive throughout your sailing.

What this video answers

  • Why is tipping so important on cruises if it's already included in my fare?
  • What's the best way to get a crew member recognized in the post-cruise survey?
  • Can I really request that my kids be placed in the same Adventure Ocean group if they're different ages?
  • What should I do if I'm unhappy with a crew member's response to my complaint?
  • When is the worst time to visit guest services?
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Overview of This Cruise Ship Tips Guide from a Former Employee

This video brings insider wisdom from Pippa Madden, who spent over eight years working on Royal Caribbean and Celebrity Cruises. Rather than rehashing common cruise advice, she shares eight practical tips that crew members wish guests would follow—things observed firsthand during thousands of sailings. The focus is on behavior, etiquette, and smart decisions that can transform your onboard experience from frustrating to genuinely enjoyable.

If you're planning a Royal Caribbean cruise, whether it's your first or fifth sailing, this guide speaks directly to the mistakes and oversights that crew members encounter repeatedly. It's particularly useful for families with children, solo travelers, and anyone wanting to maximize their vacation time while being considerate to the hardworking people who make cruises run smoothly.

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Key Tips for a Better Cruise Experience

  • Treat crew members with kindness and respect—they don't make the policies, and being nice gets you further than complaints
  • Budget for tipping as an expected part of the cruise experience, especially in North American waters where gratuity is standard
  • Apply and reapply sunscreen throughout the day to avoid painful burns that ruin photos and comfort for the rest of your sailing
  • Complete the post-cruise survey and include crew member names (photographing their name badges makes it easy)—these surveys directly impact their promotions and contracts
  • Follow basic guest etiquette: don't put feet on furniture, respect dress codes, use designated smoking areas, and don't lie to Adventure Ocean staff about children's ages
  • Avoid visiting guest services during the first and last days when lines are longest; use morning or late-night hours instead, or ask crew in yellow shirts for help
  • Tip casino dealers when playing table games—it creates a collaborative atmosphere where both player and dealer win together
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What to Know Before Your Royal Caribbean Sailing

  • Tipping expectations: Gratuity is customary and expected on North American cruises, similar to restaurant dining in the United States; cultural differences exist, but Royal Caribbean operates primarily in North America
  • Sunscreen timing: Set phone alarms to remind yourself to reapply sunscreen throughout the day, not just once in the morning
  • Survey importance: Royal Caribbean sends a post-cruise survey that directly affects crew member careers, promotions, and future contracts—completing it takes minutes but matters significantly
  • Guest services strategy: Tackle questions and non-emergency issues on days two through final day, or visit early morning or late at night to avoid peak crowds
  • Adventure Ocean policy: Children must attend kids' clubs according to their actual birth date; requesting same-group placement for siblings is fine, but misrepresenting ages wastes time and creates awkward situations
  • Guest etiquette rules: Lounging areas, dress codes, and smoking policies are enforced; treating them as genuine rules rather than suggestions keeps your experience smooth

Frequently Asked Questions About Cruise Ship Guest Conduct

Why is tipping so important on cruises if it's already included in my fare?

Tipping is indeed expected beyond your base fare price. Crew members depend on gratuity as a core part of their income, and it goes directly to rewarding good service. Being generous also makes crew happier and more attentive throughout your sailing. While the philosophical debate about mandatory tipping exists, the practical reality on cruise ships is that gratuity is an established norm you should budget for.

What's the best way to get a crew member recognized in the post-cruise survey?

Take a quick photo of your favorite crew member's name badge with your phone so you spell their name correctly in the survey. This small action has outsized impact—positive survey mentions go directly to that employee's manager and influence their eligibility for promotions and new contract renewals with the cruise line.

Can I really request that my kids be placed in the same Adventure Ocean group if they're different ages?

Yes, you can politely ask. However, Adventure Ocean staff will verify your children's actual birth dates in the system, so lying about their age is pointless and awkward. Depending on capacity and activity schedules, staff may arrange same-group placement on a trial or interim basis, but asking honestly works far better than attempting to deceive.

What should I do if I'm unhappy with a crew member's response to my complaint?

Ask calmly to speak with a manager rather than lashing out at the crew member. Remember that individual crew members don't set company policies; they're just enforcing them. Being kind and respectful while escalating concerns to management is the professional approach that actually gets results.

When is the worst time to visit guest services?

The first afternoon of your cruise and the final day are peak times when lines are longest. Most guests have common questions they could ask later, wasting precious vacation time. Visit early morning, late evening, or any mid-cruise day instead. For simple questions, look for crew members in bright yellow "Can I help you?" shirts scattered around the ship—they often handle basic inquiries without requiring a guest services visit.

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Key Terms

Gratuity
A tip or additional payment given to service workers, which is customary and expected on cruises as part of the overall cost.
Adventure Ocean
Royal Caribbean's supervised kids' club program that groups children by age and offers activities throughout the sailing.
Guest etiquette
The expected behavior and respectful conduct required of cruise passengers toward crew members and other guests.
Post-cruise survey
A feedback form Royal Caribbean sends to guests after their sailing to gather opinions on service and crew performance.

Sources: Gratuity · Adventure Ocean · Guest etiquette · Post-cruise survey — definitions cross-referenced with Wikipedia

Justin’s Take

This video cuts through generic cruise advice by offering real observations from someone who worked onboard for eight years. The perspective is refreshingly honest—crew members notice small rudeness, incomplete surveys, and preventable mistakes that pile up across hundreds of sailings. Knowing what frustrates or disappoints the people running your vacation helps you sail smarter.

What stands out most is how the video frames common issues not as rule-breaking but as respect and practicality. Skipping guest services during peak hours isn't avoiding bureaucracy; it's reclaiming your vacation time. Not lying about children's ages isn't about honesty alone; it's saving yourself an awkward confrontation. Every tip has a genuine reason behind it that benefits you as much as the crew. I'd strongly recommend watching this before your next sailing.

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I've shared plenty of tips about going on a roller coin cruise, but what about the tips that a crew member would recommend to you. I've got eight of them up next. [Music] Hey everyone, it's Matt from Royal Caribbean blog.com. And there's no denying that the crew on a Royal Caribbean cruise ship see a lot of

things in their time on board, including guests making mistakes along the way. One of my very good friends is Pipa Madden who used to work on Royal Caribbean and Celebrity Cruises and she did that for over eight years and now she has her own YouTube channel called Ocean Time which I have a link to in the

description below. And so I asked Pipa what are some important tips that as a former employee she would see guests making mistakes of all the time. Hi Matt from Royal Caribbean blog. It's Pippa from Ocean Time and today I'm talking about eight cruise ship tips from a former employee. So today she's

got eight things to do, avoid, or simply be aware of on your upcoming cruise vacation. Be kind to the crew. This one may seem obvious, but don't be rude to crew members. The crew works incredibly hard, and if there's a policy or rule you don't agree with, remember that the crew member is not the person

that created it. I can't stress enough, you get so much further by being nice. So, not only is it in your best interest to be kind to the crew members that are on board, it's also the right thing to do. If there's truly a problem that you run into and a crew member can't help you or you're

getting frustrated with them, that's okay. Ask to speak to a manager kindly. Don't lash out. It's the last thing you want to do. Tipping is important. There's a saying that goes, "Money makes the world go round." And it applies to life on a cruise ship as well. The crew on board are there to work hard and

service the guests who come on board. Though tipping is appropriate in not only making a way to reward good service, it also goes a long way to making the crew happier. If you wish to personalize your tip by giving a gift, I think honestly most people get this about tipping that it's something that's

important. But there are some folks who believe that fundamentally tipping should be truly optional in the academic sense of the word rather than the practical sense of what it is right now. You might be right about that. That's another debate for another day. But as of right now, gratuitity is just an

expected part of the cruise experience. kind of like here in the United States when you go to a restaurant, it's just part of the dining experience. And if you're from a different country, I certainly understand there are cultural differences that are out there, but Royal Caribbean being primarily a North

American cruise line, you got to go with the punches over there. Certainly, some countries do include gratuitity as part of the overall cost like in Australia. But if you're going on a cruise in North America, you should remember that tipping is important and expected. Avoid getting sunburnt. I can't

recommend enough, especially on the first formal night. Make sure ladies do to wear sunscreen and not get burnt. I've seen it. You've seen it. Everybody's seen that one guest who clearly spent too much time in the sun or just simply forgot to put on sunscreen. I've even done this once or

twice. And getting sunburned is an avoidable but commonly occurring issue that a lot of guests run into. Nothing ruins your beautiful cruise photos like a giant red sunburn. Not to mention how painful it can be for the person who has to deal with it. So, make sure you apply sunscreen and reapply during the day. I

know it takes a little bit of time out of there, maybe set an alarm on your watch, but it is so worth it to avoid the issues that can come up later on. Never mind the aesthetics of it in terms of your photos, but it's just painful and uncomfortable. So, try not to get sunburned. Fill out the post cruise survey.

We talked earlier about the importance of tipping, but honestly, in the careers for these employees, I think the most important thing is that post cruise survey. As soon as your cruise is over, Roy will send guests a survey to get their thoughts on the sailing. And this is an incredibly critical tool for any

crew member out there. A tip is taking a photo of your favorite crew member's name badge so it will be easy to remember their name and the spelling for the survey. The reason why these surveys are so important is it goes right back to the manager of any crew member named in the survey. And this goes towards promotions

and really continuing their career at Royal Caribbean. Not only can they move up in the company, but when they go for a new contract, these kind of positive survey results from guests really matter a lot. Guest etiquette. Remember, just because you're on vacation doesn't give you cartel to do

whatever you want. Being respectful of guests and other crew members is really important during your cruise. Please do not put your feet on the furniture in any bar or lounge. And of course, guest etiquette is also about following the rules and the policies like about dress codes and not wearing

your swimming where you're not supposed to. Only smoking in the designated smoking areas and otherwise just being respectful and following the rules. Avoid guest services on the first or last day of the cruise. I've got to agree with Pipa on this one 100%. All too often, I see people

waiting in lines of guest services on the first or last day of the cruise. These are lines they didn't have to wait in because if they had just taken care of it at a different time, they could have avoided waiting in line. This is all just about not wasting your precious vacation time.

I recommend taking care of the issues that you have on other days. And if you're up early in the morning or late at night, best time to see them as well. Obviously, if there's an emergency, like you're locked out of your room or something else that needs to be taken care of immediately, you should go to

guest services. But if you can help and if you just have a general question, try to go a little bit later at a time when there isn't a line because again during that first afternoon on board, a lot of people have some really common questions and they wait in guest services lines to

ask them rather than maybe come back a little bit later. In addition, you may see crew members around the ship wearing a bright yellow shirt that usually says something like, "Can I help you?" or something to that effect. You can definitely ask them these kinds of questions and as long as it's not a

billing question or again CPASS, something else that needs to be physically produced, they can usually help you out with that as well. Don't lie to a venture ocean staff. So, we already covered etiquette. So, why are you saying Matt? Do we really need to cover lying as well as not part

of guest etiquette? This is a little bit different. I thought this was kind of interesting that Pippa noticed this as part of something that commonly occurs among parents. I guess in this situation, don't tell white lies about your child's birth date. Venture Ocean has all their details.

You'd be surprised how often sometimes parents want to actually lie about their kids' age in order to get them into one group or another. Usually the motivation is they want to have one child be with another child who's in a different age group and they want them to be in the same one. So they tell this little lie,

oh no, they're born on this date, they're the same age, they should be in this group when of course the staff is going to easily look them up in the system. In fact, they have to look them up in the system anytime they bring them in there. So this is just a waste of your time quite frankly and it's going

to put you in a really really awkward situation. If you do want to request having your kids in the same group, that's okay. You can ask for that. Depending on the capacity and how busy they are, they may or may not be able to arrange this for you. Sometimes they do it on a interim basis or a trial basis,

but it is much better to ask than to try to lie your way around it. You can tip the casino dealer. So, this next tip is actually something that Pipa noticed a lot because of course she used to be a crewier on Royal Caribbean chips. And in the casino, you can and it's not actually a bad idea to

tip the casino dealer during your play when you're at the table games. If you want to play with the dealer, then when they win, you win. Or when you win, they win. Either way, it's a win-win situation. Tip the dealer. So, there you have eight tips from a former Royal Caribbean crew member who

has been there, seen it, done it, and reported back on it. And of course, big shout out to Pipa for helping us out with this particular video today. If you liked it, make sure you hit that like button below. Subscribe to our channel. Subscribe to Pippa's channel as well. And also turn on your notifications so

that way YouTube lets you know when we have a brand new video to share. This has been Matt from royal Caribbean blog.com and we'll talk again real soon.

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